Sunday, May 24, 2020

Family : First Job for every Indian Woman

Family : First Job of every Indian Woman...

The birds chirp, waiting for the grains..
The plants need watering...

The phone kept beeping, and school bus is honking...

No bread  left for toast....
The milk just spilled over... 
Ah  Shit..

The maid has not arrived today, 
The breakfast is still not ready,
And she has  tiffins to fill.
Can u please iron my shirt first, a voice came...

The laundry heap increases day by day...
Groceries can wait...

Mum, my homework is still not done..

She also has to go early to school.
There's a workshop in the school,
She don't know how to manage.

Her mother in law is here, 
To ask medicines for backache.
A call from the bathroom
“I’ve forgotten the towel ”

Her  shoulders aches
And she  has no one to tell.
Her eyes are heavy and sober.. 
With last night's long presentation..

She don't remember the last time
She had been to the parlor.

She even forgot to iron her saree..

The bus honks again, But before that she has  to pick the  toys that are scattered.

She don't remember 
When she spoke to her sister.
Can't recollect the moments
when she chatted with her mother.

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She is  not a  feminist, 
She is  not an  atheist, She is 
more than a housekeeper, 
a mother and a doctor.

She could be an orator,
a painter, an artist,
a singer, a poetess,
a traveller, a photographer, a calligrapher, a cyclist,
a writer, a musician.
In fact she is doing part of everything for the kids..

The last time she tried something at writing
just to find her ability, 
The child scored badly ...

And then we know what followed exactly...

So next time the kid got a gold medal.. Bang..

Everyone praised his father's genes
She tries to  remember her trophies and medals
which no one had seen...

She don't know what her daughter 
Will do after growing up.
But she is  sure that these responsibilities
will never stop to follow her.

Marriages are made in heaven
Love is a fairly tale.
 Every working woman
has a different story to tell.
So, whenever you look
At a house that's tidy,
A child who is happy,
Intelligent and healthy,
Remember, it's the woman behind 
Who sacrificed her sleep,
her degrees, her passion
her ambitions and needs.
Give her a pat, a word of praise,
a ear to listen, a helping hand
It's always a woman 
who makes the house a home.....

To all brave women's around....
🙏🏻

2 comments:

  1. Great, I think best topic Sir, world without women like painting without colours....,,,👌👌👌👌👌👌

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  2. So, your words are so true and I am glad being a Man you noticed it. But being a woman I have a different perspective towards it. It's true that women work 24*7 jobs for their family irrespective of being a professional worker or not. I am also involved in such responsibilities. Being a kid we all see our moms working hard day and night and trying to fulfil all expectations.

    When food is less they say they are not hungry. When they have money they spend on their family. They give all their blood and heart to their family with a big smile. And I am happy that I got a chance to serve the same. But I can't neglect at the same time what men play a role in the life of a family. They are also as special as women of the family are. That's what a law of nature is men are made to work and provide bread for the family. And women are made to make a place simply a home. They are soft and delicate. But at the same time, I am seeing men in my life they also doing their part as I am seeing my father, my brother and you also.

    I don't know about all the women and certainly, I am not mentioning feminist here who always tries to see men in a negative way only. As a woman, all we want is a small appreciation and consideration for our contribution, love and dedication which we show to our family. That makes us feel worthy and that's actually everything for us. Being a woman I just want this. I am ready to do 24*7 for my loved ones and all I want is my love and care reciprocated. God made women a Multi tasker as he knows women are capable of this. In spite of being physically less strong than men they certainly can handle it as they are much more strong emotionally then men.

    So, you don't need to make them feel vulnerable for what they have done or doing it's all part of the package. We do all this happily. We feel more guilty when our family member goes out without eating or without ironed clothes or things like this. Because that's part of our duty like the men do there duties. So being a man just appreciate Women and make them feel worthy. That's all we all and I want as a woman!!!!!!

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